What’s an Easy Way to Have Fun, Meet Tons of New Singles Who Want to Meet You, and Be The Life of the Party?

Host an Eye Gazing Party!

Have you ever gone out, and been asked superficial questions again and again when talking to new people in bars and clubs?

That’s what was happening to me when I was single, and it started to feel more like a job interview than a chance to meet a potential date and really get to know them!

gazing11So I invented Eye Gazing Parties.

What are Eye Gazing Parties? The eyes are the windows to the soul, so it’s a lot easier to have a mesmerizing conversation with someone after you’ve spent two minutes looking into his or her eyes. That is the simple idea behind Eye Gazing Parties. Banal chit-chat about employment status, the location of your apartment, or where you’re from is not a great way to spark a captivating connection with an alluring new person. Eye contact is.

Here’s how it works. An even number of singles gets together in an attractive space. After a fun mini-lesson in the art of eye contact, the group splits into pairs, and each pair spends two minutes looking at each other’s eyes, no talking, with inviting beats in the background. The pairs switch up every two minutes, for a total of forty-five minutes. Then there’s a party afterward, with drinks flowing and luscious beats vibing. You can talk with everyone you met gazing to get to know each other even better and exchange information with potential dates. The eye gazing has an electrifying effect on the party. Simply put, two minutes of eye contact is the Cadillac of ice-breakers.


Eye Gazing Parties have been featured in the New York Times, CNN, Good Morning America, Match.com,


Nerve.com, MSNBC, the BBC, and in Tim Ferriss’s #1 New York Times bestseller The Four-Hour Workweek (pp. 60-61). Elle magazine called Eye Gazing Parties “New York’s hottest dating trend.” They’ve happened across the nation, and in Australia, Singapore, and Budapest!

So how can you experience the fun and excitement of an Eye Gazing Party? The answer is simple: host one yourself!

That’s right. I’m not out to make any money off of these parties. I love eye contact, I love bringing people together, and I love the idea of you spreading this magic into your community!

So, I’m sharing with you the opportunity to host these parties in your own city. Just fill out the form below, and I’ll send you my free 24-page report “How to Host an Eye Gazing Party.” This will give you all the info you need to know on how to host an Eye Gazing Party, including:

  • How to find hip, sexy venues that will let you host your party for free
  • How to get a great crowd to come to your party
  • How to set up the party, including layout, rotation format, and even music selection
  • A precise, minute-by-minute guide of how to make sure the party goes smoothly
  • How to teach your crowd how to gaze so everyone is comfortable

To get your free guide, just fill out the form below.

You can charge whatever you want for the parties (or better yet, host them for free!). Keep the money. All that I ask is that you credit me and my site as the founder and originator of the concept, in your communications about the party to attendees and to the media.

Once you have your party set up, in the guide I also give you info on how you can get the Eye Gazing Party you host listed up on this site’s blog, for added visibility and promotion.

So, without further ado–download the free guide “How To Host An Eye Gazing Party” by filling out the form above, and I’ll see you in the gaze!


Michael Ellsberg

Author, The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret for Success in Business, Love and Life.